Do you have kids?
As of today, I have two growing kids, one is 3 the other is almost six.
Seeing them slowly grow up and having the privilege of taking care of them myself, I can't help but observe some similarities but a lot of differences.
This morning I was faced with fear and worry as we celebrated Kuya's school achievement. I got a bit scared and worried a bit for my little Sam.
While we were all in high heavens celebrating Kuya's achievements I was trying my best not to let Sam feel jealous or left out. I wanted her to see that she is part of her Kuya's success. I wanted her to celebrate with us. This early on, I wouldn't want them to feel that there is a competition between the two of them for our love and attention. That each of them is receiving our full 100+% of love, time and support. I would not like for Sam to experience the "emotional battles" I had when I was growing up, just as so I can prove myself to my peers and my parents.
Thankfully, at this stage, I can't sense any competition between the two of them. For me kasi, I'd rather prevent than cure so I'm making myself informed.
My goodness! To think I only have two kids! How much more those parents who successfully managed to raise more kids!
I guess I'm at the receiving end this time. I suddenly missed my small chats with my veteran mommy friends back home. I miss hearing their stories and learning from them.
I'm now challenged to make sure that both my kids will feel and realise that we are equally happy and proud with their respective achievements regardless on what field they choose.
I will be working on that and I know it will not be easy!
How about you, how do you cele
brate your children's individuality and cultivate their uniqueness? Tips, please :-)
